{"id":1498,"date":"2026-09-01T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-09-01T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/annabelwrites.com\/?p=1498"},"modified":"2026-08-31T20:48:47","modified_gmt":"2026-08-31T19:48:47","slug":"the-summer-we-didnt-go-away-why-staying-home-is-absolutely-okay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annabelwrites.com\/?p=1498","title":{"rendered":"The Summer We Didn\u2019t Go Away: Why Staying Home Is Absolutely Okay"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ah, the summer holidays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Six weeks of sunshine, family time, day trips, ice creams, questionable amounts of snacks and my boy repeatedly asking, <em>\u201cWhat are we doing today?\u201d<\/em> before I&#8217;ve even had my breakfast!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There\u2019s something about the summer holidays that can make you feel like you\u2019re doing it wrong if you\u2019re not going away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Open social media and it can sometimes feel as though everyone you know is currently sitting beside a swimming pool in Spain, or exploring some foriegn land.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1880\" height=\"1249\" data-attachment-id=\"1522\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/annabelwrites.com\/?attachment_id=1522\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/pexels-photo-18300751.jpeg?fit=1880%2C1249&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1880,1249\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;Photo by Do\\u011fan Ate\\u015f on &lt;a href=\\&quot;https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/tourists-among-ancient-ruin-18300751\/\\&quot; rel=\\&quot;nofollow\\&quot;&gt;Pexels.com&lt;\/a&gt;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;tourists among ancient ruin&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"pexels-photo-18300751\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Photo by Do\u011fan Ate\u015f on &lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/tourists-among-ancient-ruin-18300751\/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Pexels.com&lt;\/a&gt;&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/pexels-photo-18300751.jpeg?fit=1024%2C680&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/pexels-photo-18300751.jpeg?resize=1880%2C1249&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"tourists among ancient ruin\" class=\"wp-image-1522\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/pexels-photo-18300751.jpeg?w=1880&amp;ssl=1 1880w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/pexels-photo-18300751.jpeg?resize=300%2C199&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/pexels-photo-18300751.jpeg?resize=1024%2C680&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/pexels-photo-18300751.jpeg?resize=768%2C510&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/pexels-photo-18300751.jpeg?resize=1536%2C1020&amp;ssl=1 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Meanwhile, I&#8217;m standing in my kitchen trying to work out where we can go on a tight budget wondering whether I can count a trip to ASDA as a day out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Well, I\u2019m going to say it:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>You do not have to go away for the summer holidays.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And, actually, you can have a really lovely summer without packing a suitcase, sitting in airport security or spending half your life in a car journey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Not everyone can afford a holiday<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let\u2019s start with the obvious one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Holidays are expensive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Really expensive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There is accommodation, food, travel, activities, luggage, insurance and a few other things that mysteriously appear on the bill once you&#8217;ve committed to going away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And while we\u2019re constantly told to <em>\u201cmake memories\u201d<\/em>, the reality is that not every family has the money to book a holiday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are many families who simply cannot afford to go away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And that\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s not something I\u2019m ashamed of, and I don\u2019t think anyone else should feel ashamed either. But we are one of the minority of families that earn a standard amount that can afford us to have a bedroom each, a nice garden and a pet cat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes finances dictate what we can and can\u2019t do. Sometimes there are other priorities. Sometimes you\u2019ve simply looked at the price of a family holiday and thought, <em>\u201cAbsolutely not. <\/em>I could spend that redecorating the house!<em>\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1880\" height=\"1253\" data-attachment-id=\"1524\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/annabelwrites.com\/?attachment_id=1524\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/pexels-photo-5583092.jpeg?fit=1880%2C1253&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1880,1253\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;Photo by Polina Tankilevitch on &lt;a href=\\&quot;https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/painting-materials-on-the-floor-5583092\/\\&quot; rel=\\&quot;nofollow\\&quot;&gt;Pexels.com&lt;\/a&gt;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;painting materials on the floor&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"pexels-photo-5583092\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Photo by Polina Tankilevitch on &lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/painting-materials-on-the-floor-5583092\/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Pexels.com&lt;\/a&gt;&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/pexels-photo-5583092.jpeg?fit=1024%2C682&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/pexels-photo-5583092.jpeg?resize=1880%2C1253&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"painting materials on the floor\" class=\"wp-image-1524\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/pexels-photo-5583092.jpeg?w=1880&amp;ssl=1 1880w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/pexels-photo-5583092.jpeg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/pexels-photo-5583092.jpeg?resize=1024%2C682&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/pexels-photo-5583092.jpeg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/pexels-photo-5583092.jpeg?resize=1536%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Whatever the reason, staying home isn&#8217;t a failure. We manage to just about survive <a href=\"https:\/\/annabelwrites.com\/?p=123\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">covid<\/a> so what\u2019s 6 weeks in comparison??<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It doesn&#8217;t mean your children are missing out on childhood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It doesn&#8217;t mean you haven&#8217;t made an effort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And it certainly doesn&#8217;t mean you can&#8217;t have fun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Normal life can continue<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One of the things we\u2019ve found helpful is keeping some routine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now, I\u2019m not suggesting we get up at 6am during the holidays, put on a school uniform and recreate the school run for entertainment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Absolutely not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I enjoy my sanity too much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But having some sort of rhythm to the day helped me to make a huge difference.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Getting up at a vaguely sensible time, getting dressed rather than remaining in pyjamas until 3pm, having regular mealtimes and knowing roughly what the day might involve can help everyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It can simply mean having a bit of predictability amongst the chaos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">You don&#8217;t have to entertain them constantly<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This one took me a while to accept.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I do not need to become a full-time holiday activity coordinator.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He does not need a <a href=\"https:\/\/pin.it\/7xa4zyUUn\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Pinterest<\/a>-worthy activity planned for every hour of every day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is perfectly acceptable for him to be bored.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In fact, boredom (apparently) can be good for children. Personally I\u2019ve forgotten what it\u2019s like to get bored!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let him make a den.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Encourage him to play in the garden, water fights are fun if you don\u2019t mind getting wet!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Get the Lego out and start him off on a new project!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" data-attachment-id=\"1528\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/annabelwrites.com\/?attachment_id=1528\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image.jpg?fit=1500%2C2000&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1500,2000\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"image\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image.jpg?fit=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image.jpg?resize=768%2C1024&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1528\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image.jpg?resize=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image.jpg?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image.jpg?resize=1152%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1152w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image.jpg?w=1500&amp;ssl=1 1500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">This was a Christmas present he made, but it didn\u2019t stand up so I told him to make something out of Lego to stand it in.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let him occasionally announce that he is <em>\u201csooooo bored\u201d<\/em> despite having hundreds of toys within a three-metre radius.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I don&#8217;t have to fix it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes the best memories come from the simplest things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Discover what&#8217;s on your doorstep<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Go for a walk somewhere you&#8217;ve never explored.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Visit a park you&#8217;ve never tried.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Find a nature\/woodland trail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Take a picnic somewhere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Visit a museum, there are <a href=\"https:\/\/whichmuseum.co.uk\/place\/england-4\/free\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">free ones<\/a> too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Look for free events happening locally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Explore a nearby town.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" data-attachment-id=\"1503\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/annabelwrites.com\/?attachment_id=1503\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/geojango-maps-Z8UgB80_46w-unsplash.jpg?fit=5200%2C3466&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"5200,3466\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"geojango-maps-Z8UgB80_46w-unsplash\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/geojango-maps-Z8UgB80_46w-unsplash.jpg?fit=1024%2C683&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/geojango-maps-Z8UgB80_46w-unsplash.jpg?resize=1024%2C683&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/geojango-maps-Z8UgB80_46w-unsplash.jpg?resize=1024%2C683&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/geojango-maps-Z8UgB80_46w-unsplash.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/geojango-maps-Z8UgB80_46w-unsplash.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/geojango-maps-Z8UgB80_46w-unsplash.jpg?resize=1536%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/geojango-maps-Z8UgB80_46w-unsplash.jpg?resize=2048%2C1365&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/geojango-maps-Z8UgB80_46w-unsplash.jpg?w=3000&amp;ssl=1 3000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Go to the library.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Have a beach day if you&#8217;re close enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Take the bikes or scooters out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Have a photography challenge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" data-attachment-id=\"1505\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/annabelwrites.com\/?attachment_id=1505\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/ryunosuke-kikuno-9Mt9mXirYWI-unsplash.jpg?fit=5102%2C3406&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"5102,3406\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"ryunosuke-kikuno-9Mt9mXirYWI-unsplash\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/ryunosuke-kikuno-9Mt9mXirYWI-unsplash.jpg?fit=1024%2C684&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/ryunosuke-kikuno-9Mt9mXirYWI-unsplash.jpg?resize=1024%2C684&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1505\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/ryunosuke-kikuno-9Mt9mXirYWI-unsplash.jpg?resize=1024%2C684&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/ryunosuke-kikuno-9Mt9mXirYWI-unsplash.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/ryunosuke-kikuno-9Mt9mXirYWI-unsplash.jpg?resize=768%2C513&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/ryunosuke-kikuno-9Mt9mXirYWI-unsplash.jpg?resize=1536%2C1025&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/ryunosuke-kikuno-9Mt9mXirYWI-unsplash.jpg?resize=2048%2C1367&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annabelwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/ryunosuke-kikuno-9Mt9mXirYWI-unsplash.jpg?w=3000&amp;ssl=1 3000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Go <a href=\"https:\/\/www.geocaching.com\/play\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">geocaching<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Visit a farm, garden centre or local attraction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Or simply get in the car with a flask, some snacks and absolutely no idea where you&#8217;re going.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes discovering somewhere new doesn&#8217;t require a passport.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It just requires Googling <em>\u201cthings to do near me\u201d<\/em> and hoping you don&#8217;t accidentally end up somewhere that costs \u00a327 per person just to look at a green pond.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Make the ordinary feel special<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One of the best things about not going away is realising that you don&#8217;t need to do something huge to create a memory.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Have a movie night with popcorn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eat dinner outside.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Make homemade pizzas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Go for an evening walk, this was a favourite as it was too hot to go out during the day when we had the heatwave!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hit the charity shops and find a board game or jigsaw puzzle that could take most of the day, we one took 3 weeks to do a 5,000 piece one!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Build a fort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These things might seem small, but children don&#8217;t necessarily remember the price tag.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They remember the fun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They remember laughing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They remember Mum or Dad joining in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They remember staying up late and watching stars because 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